I’ve been looking for a place like this. The thing is I never thought I’d find it on Facebook let alone this type of group on Facebook. I’d taken a 5 year sabbatical from Facebook because I couldn’t stand the people and I felt the social network was just way too overrated.
Just recently (the last 4 months or so) I started getting really heavy into the art groups, because I friggin love art. Besides it has a plethora or Art Groups. But that’s beside the point right now.
I don’t know how but I stumbled upon this group called Narcissist Support (from YouTube) which has over 12k members in it (not just women) but men as well. It’s a closed group so you’ll have to ask to join.
If the link doesn’t work just log into Facebook and search Narcissist Support (from YouTube) it’s one of the few groups that I’ve felt totally validated in and about how I feel inside. People like me. Not just recovering people, but people “still in it“, people still fighting. People who have each other’s backs. No one judges each other like I feel some of the Narcissist blogs on here do.
If someone would ask a question like “has your Narc ever did this…“, over 100 people would chime in on their horrific experiences. I call these experiences share and share alikes, because everyone shares their trauma’s and no one is left to feel stupid because of their choices. Everyone is validated and not ignored and this is the most reassuring feeling of all. I will call this my home and there’s no place like it.
It’s a bummer that I can’t share my poetry, which relates so much to our experiences in this group, but I can always find another outlet for it…