When you say hurtful (verbally abusive) words to another, how dare you think that those words aren’t remembered or effective to the psych? Out of anger or not, you need to watch what you say! Some words can’t be forgiven and if they are, the abuse will continue…

I’ve been in a relationship with someone for the past three months and they’ve called me every name in the book out of anger (mutherfucker, dumbass, bitch, petty, that i deserved to be alone because of my insecurities, Ms.know-it-all) etc, etc and they’ve even told me that I deserved all the abusive treatment that I received from my previous 18 yrs of marriage) but not have I ever once stepped to thier level and responded with the same violent distructive words that they have… and trust me, they deserved it.

Now, if this isn’t an emotionally and verbally abusive narcissist than I don’t know what is. All I know is that I deserve better than this person. 


2 thoughts on “DISTRUCTIVE WORD

  1. Agreed – you deserve much more. Words can stay with you forever. I’m sorry this person has been so cruel. I can definitely relate – my ex was verbally abusive and constantly put me down. And yet he was the one who said in the beginning of the relationship that words matter and once you say something you can never take it back. Guess he couldn’t take his own advice. Stay strong and remember that you are amazing and don’t deserve to be treated this way. Much love – speak766


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